Friday, August 20, 2010

I'm Just Not One Of Those Moms

Okay so I am so not one of those Moms that hates for her little one to start school. I have to say that when Easton started kindergarten a couple of years ago I was like really only a half day. I am also thinking at this time really 3 more years till Cannon starts? But I do love them and am excited to hear about the fun times they have at school and are sad that time goes by so fast. When Easton started kindergarten his teacher read us this story. I think it is cute and makes me think am I doing enough as a parent to prepare these little ones to go into the (alot of times) not so nice world. So Enjoy!

Once upon a time there was a little boy named Jack who was about to climb his very first beanstalk. He had a fresh haircut and brand-new book bag.
Even though his friends in the neighborhood had climbed this same beanstalk almost every day last year, this was Jack's first day and he was a little nervous. So was his Mother.
Early in the morning she brought him to the foot of the beanstalk. She talked encouragingly to Jack about all the fun he would have that day and how nice his giant would be. She reassured him that she would be back to pick him up at the end of the day. For a moment they stood together, silently holding hands, gazing up at the beanstalk. To Jack it seemed much bigger than it had when his mother had pointed it out on the way to the store last week. His mother thought it looked big, too. She swallowed. Maybe she should have held Jack out a year.
Jack's Mother straightened his shirt one last time, patted his shoulder and smiled down at him. She promised to stay and wave while he stated climbing. Jack didn't say a word.
He walked forward, grabbed a low-growing stem and slowly pulled himself up to the first leaf. He balanced there for a moment and then climbed more eagerly to the second leaf, then to the third and soon he had vanished into a high tangle of leaves and stems with never a backward glance at his Mother.
She stood alone at the bottom of the beanstalk, gazing up at the spot where Jack had disappeared. There was no rustle, no movement, and no sound to indicate that he was anywhere inside.
"Sometimes" she thought, "it's harder to be the one who waves goodbye than it is to be the one who climbs the beanstalk."
She wondered how Jack would do. Would he miss her? How would he behave? Did his giant understand that little boys sometimes acted silly when they felt unsure? She fought down and urge to spring up the stalk after Jack and maybe duck behind a bean to take a peek at how he was doing.
"I'd better not. What if he saw me?" She knew Jack was really old enough to handle this on his own. She reminded herself that after all, this was thought to be and excellent beanstalk and that everyone said his giant was not only kind but had outstanding qualifications.
"It's not so much that I'm worried about him," she thought, rubbing the back of her neck. "It's just that he's growing up and I'm going to miss him."
Jack's Mother turned to leave "Jack's going to have lots of bigger beanstalks to climb in his life" she told herself.
"Today's the day he starts practicing for them.... And today's the day I start practicing something too; cheering him on and waving goodbye."

K-I also found this cute idea on this website http://beeinourbonnet.blogspot.com/2010/08/first-day-survival-kit.html This is so cute and I also like to do fun things for my kids teachers. They have the hardest job and I appreciate all they do for the kids.

Okay I know in a post a few weeks ago I said I was going to not do all the cutsey stuff this year, but this is just so cute I couldn't pass it up.

2 comments:

  1. cute story :) i think i feel the same way you do...and the survival kit is a cute idea, maybe when i get my act together and ALL my kids are in school i can do something cute like that! ha!

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  2. very cute story:} I am a sappy mom I'll admit, but I know here in a few weeks (if not before) I'll be so enjoying this whole process!

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